Comments on: Why you should block all ex boyfriends/girlfriends from IM

By: Not stating it here!

Not stating it here! — Tue, 03 Mar 2009 19:17:47 +0000

Now if that was me I would have sent him a real nice wedding gift… oh… like anything that would let her know he was seeing you. I had thought my ex was on break with his girl… but I know different now, and the sad thing was he never really hid he was seeing me… I was hiding I was seeing him! But he will end up busted in the long run.

By: Stella

Stella — Wed, 11 Feb 2009 01:34:08 +0000

I dated a guy for several months. We were working together and he kept saying he didn’t want anyone to know we were seeing each other. I tolerated this for a while, and finally decided I didn’t want to anymore, when he totally turned around and said he couldn’t wait to show me off. The very next time we went out with mutual friends he wouldn’t hardly talk to me, and then when I complained, unfriended me on facebook (stupid) and dropped me cold. It turned out he moved back in with his ex-girlfriend and proposed a few weeks later. I suspect they were “on a break” or something and that’s why he didn’t want anyone to know about me.

This was 7 months ago. I got a message from him today that said:

guess what? I’m gonna be a daddy! How are you? sorry if this comes across as random Don’t be a stranger!

for real?

By: Not stating it here!

Not stating it here! — Mon, 12 Jan 2009 21:58:55 +0000

Yes he is… I love him so much, but he is getting a pretty good chuckle out of it.

By: Matt E. Warren

Matt E. Warren — Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:54:12 +0000

Ho. Lee. Shhhhh. It.

Your husband is a saint.

By: I'm not stating it here!

I'm not stating it here! — Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:07:16 +0000

This was my ex from high school… given that I am now 29, and we had a quick 2 month affair about 2 years ago that I ended by telling my husband that I thought that I was pregnant and that it probably wasn’t his. I had told him, and explained that even if it was his my husband would raise it as his own, and I just wanted rid of him. He contacted me originally on my myspace that my husband knew the password for, and he knew that. So I sent him to a fake myspace to find out what he really wanted. Needless to say it went from 0-100 in no time.

—————– Original Message —————–
From: Me

Please only contact me from here on out on my private myspace.

—————– Original Message —————–
From: Him

Ok, no nothing is wrong, I just got a wild hair up my ass to contact you. I’ve been wondering if you had a baby or not? I wish we could had worked this out differently. Oh well it is what it is. So how has life been treating you. My tattoos have been coming along great.I’m getting better every day.

—————– Original Message —————–
From: Me

I just checked my last message, I thought that I had sent it… but I guess not. Here is my personal cell number… just in case you ever need to talk. Most people can not contact me on it. Hopefully now all the drama and bs is over we can be friendly.

—————– Original Message —————–
From: Him

So does that mean you missed me? So what exactly is friendly?

—————– Original Message —————–
From: Me

Well, did you miss me? And what do you take as friendly?

—————– Original Message —————–
From: Him

I asked you first. What is friendly and did you miss me?

—————– Original Message —————–
From: Me

Yes, I have missed you, but how can I hit you from here… Plus, you would like that too much, now wouldn’t you? Well as far as friendly, from our past record it always starts here and ends up there… like you minded? Have you seen my new pictures, if so what did you think? I have more, but they are hidden from public views. Ok, your turn… did you miss me?

(This message was to find out what he was actually contacting me about and was a bet between my husband and me to what the reply would be… we both lost… nobody would expect what came next.)

—————– Original Message —————–
From: Him

As of the pics, I’d like to f*** the hell out of you in those boots, maybe I’d even like to see you with a strap on. The pics are nice, you should let me see the private pics, you should tell me what they look like 1st. Yes I’ve missed you, but i don’t like the way you threw me under that bus. I can’t be calling you late nights anymore for i have a 1 year old boy and a girl friend. You can still e mail me.

After this… it gets much worse… but funny… it became an amusement for my husband, my friends, my family, and anyone else that ever met this guy.

By: John

John — Tue, 23 Dec 2008 13:40:26 +0000

To make a long story short my ex broke up with me for reason she has yet to explain then three month later after not saying a word to her she sends me a semi nude pic of her in the bath tub. i never responded never said a word i just kept in my phone to show my buddies and deleted after they all saw. yesterday she told me that she still has feeling for me i told her i am seeing someone else and i am not interested any longer she has been IM and SMS

By: I would tell u my name if I remembered it

I would tell u my name if I remembered it — Sun, 23 Nov 2008 22:08:56 +0000

Two years ago I met this handsome guy on a dating site…we were IMing each other every night, texted and he used to call everyday for about a month before we decided to meet up for a date.

I was crazy about him, we used to talk for hours in his car…but somehow my intuition told me there was something wrong, cos he would only come see me after 10pm and would go out but never invite me,but would say his with his mother or sister. He even asked to date me officially and I said yes, but then an hour later I called him up to say no, cos I still couldn’t shake off this uneasiness!

Two months passed, and I eventually called him to come around to me cos I thought I was ready to have sex with him…we had a quickie in my apartment. Suffice to say that was the last time I saw him!!!

A week later he calls me late at night and told me his drunk and he wants to see me..I asked him why and he says “cos I want to have sex, and I know u would f*** the shit outta a drunk man”…needless to say I told him to piss off!

A few days later was new years eve and I sent him a text message that I hope that the new year would make him a new man and not the immatured asshole he is!

The whole of january the 1st he sends me texts about how urgent he needs to speak to me! Eventually he started IMing me and telling me that he needs to tell me “the truth”…that I was just part of a bet and that him and 4 of his friends get to meet beautiful women online and try to get to different bases with them in a short period of time and they make money off the women with his friends. And that he “genuinely” liked me and that’s why he had to tell me all that and come clean with me…and how he made $1500 off me when he slept with me that sat afternoon! And that 99% of what ihe told me about his life was a lie, even his name wasn’t really his name!

Honestly, what he told me f****d me up emotionally and mentally….It took me a year to start gettin back into the world to meet new people…It was hard very very hard for me to trust people again since then.

Some men are just pigs and they don’t care who they hurt!

By: Jill

Jill — Thu, 20 Nov 2008 03:57:31 +0000

You know, i actually think the lipstick metaphor was perfect.

what a creep.

By: Atenea

Atenea — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 20:40:44 +0000

The guy I just broke up with told me via IM that he wasn’t ready to start a relationship because he had been “scarred for life” by his ex relationship. He was bitter and vulnerable and the world was dead to him. He was also perpetually depressed. When I asked him why he had approached me if he wasn’t over his last relationship he said “he didn’t know what to say to that”. I figured that was the end of the relationship right? Oh no! He IM’s me the next day and acts all offended when I tell him to leave me alone. He didn’t even have the balls to cut me off in person and then he wants to talk to me like nothing happened? The icing on the cake was that he didn’t remember telling me anything about his ex. But I had IM documentation, which I shoved in his face.

Ha ha ha. Boy, do I know how to pick ‘em.

By: Darcie

Darcie — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 18:32:30 +0000

You could’ve used my real name. I would have blogged it myself, but I know he reads my blog. Or should.