Also, I’m always honest about the fact that I’ve had chlamydia. No, I didn’t know the guy had it (obviously) and yes, I was unsafe (I assume…let’s review that blacked out question). Really awful decision making on my part (and his). I would rather just get it out there than stress about it. And I would definitely rather that someone I was with told me. My ex actually told me that he had had it on our first date and I was fine with it. Shit happens.