Comments on: Looking For Love In All The Wrong Places: Real Life Sucks

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cp — Mon, 26 Nov 2007 08:55:58 +0000

So…basicly what you are saying is that you are male ,straight, but have the same brain as a female when sizing up dates. like if the person is not listening to you, not as educated, and insensitive to your feelings about wanting to talk instead of thinking about sex all the time. Even if she was attractive and could have satisfied all your sexual needs for at least a month, you decided to dump her….
because………you are insane? I would have looked at as a project, educate her, mold her mind, while having great sex every day, and then she would think I was so smart, and ….duh? lol Think about what you did because I did that to a girl who was stunning but had a blank look , did not remember her own name she was so boring….however..dumped her.why did I do that she was really hot looking ……I was freaking idiot, what was I thinking? lol hey…do me a favor
I will go out with her. Ask her to call me and tell me about her puppy wuppy …I’m serious , tell her please lol .:P

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Ecnerwal — Wed, 21 Nov 2007 03:41:52 +0000

lol… I think I’m close to being that bad… I try not to be though.

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“Did you just write an e-mail using the incorrect form of the world ‘to’”

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Gabbi — Tue, 20 Nov 2007 05:44:39 +0000

I usually miss the signs that they are interested….Unless it’s a total loser …then i five him a ride home and he lives with his parents.
instead….I will just wait for you…let me know when you are ready!

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gt281 — Tue, 20 Nov 2007 01:53:22 +0000

i would leave a comment, but you have 42 already, so
i’m not going to…..

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Tiffiny — Mon, 19 Nov 2007 23:47:34 +0000

I am horrible at noticing red flags. I haven’t had to deal with that for at least a year, but when I was dating…yeah…I’d always end up way too far in before realizing I was in deep crap.

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lurker — Mon, 19 Nov 2007 19:36:26 +0000

I wear my red flags on my sleeve. Good conversation is relative, isnt it? Maybe she thought you couldnt hold one worth a damn and was in fact bored or reciting haiku.

That said, I don’t know you and I adore your writing.

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Katie — Mon, 19 Nov 2007 09:00:52 +0000

Having that guy thank you for dating her totally makes me wonder if anyone has ever thanked any of my dates for dating me. Or maybe I’m just the Hunchback of Notre Dame girl? Wouldn’t that be tragic?

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Poker Vixen — Mon, 19 Nov 2007 01:40:56 +0000

I think I’m pretty good at spotting the red flags although I’ve had some dud dates in my time. I’m more of a screener than a dater though. To my own detriment I think sometimes.

If it helps, I not only know what an iPod is but I have a one of the first Video ones. Does that make up for my bad writing?

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Tiffany P. — Sun, 18 Nov 2007 16:38:48 +0000

i was an idiot in my early twenties…it took me 5 YEARS w/ one guy for my red flag-o-meter to go off.

by the time i got to my late twenties i dated a guy, that, to this day is called “inappropriate gift guy”

within two weeks of dating he had bought me a 150 dollar bonsai tree, a crock pot, and a complete set of bath towels. when my parents came to visit he showed up with flowers for me. AND my mom. typing it out it seems “sweet” or someting. it wasn’t. it was creepy.

turns out he was “separated” but not “divorced”

one of the last times i saw him we were supposed to be going to the movies, but he detoured through this neighborhood. he stopped in front of a house and said “this is where i used to live with my wife and kids”. oh. ok.

then we sat there.

then his “ex” wife pulled up, came accross the street and said “what are you doing here. you know you’re not supposed to come near us or the kids” and then he introduces me.

WTF?

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Veiled Secret — Sat, 17 Nov 2007 20:36:30 +0000

I see the red flags but it seems to be my favourite colour.
Want a date? ~chuckles~